Perfectionism
As I mentioned last week, sometimes I have a hard time with perfectionism. Today’s post includes many of my imperfect drawings. A lot of the time, right after I write or draw or paint something, I feel like it wasn’t very good. It’s easy to see all the mistakes and want to just throw it away and pretend it never happened.

Giving it a few days usually changes my mind, and the mistakes seem less obvious or critical.

Well, it’s a little better, 1-10-18
Sometimes, I’ll write or draw or paint something and I’ll feel pleased with it right away. By some happy accident, it will turn out better than I expected. Did I do that? I feel a sense of wonder. Sometimes, weeks later I’ll return to these happy accidents and they aren’t as good as I remember. That feels rather like being crushed. Ouch.

There. Not as careful, but her proportions & spacing are better. 1-4-18
Sometimes, years later, I’ll read something I wrote and it is funny or interesting and surprises me. Wow. I did that? Maybe I’m better than I thought. Am I still that good?
What can you do if you feel like you have no way to objectively judge your own work? Especially when you really want it all to be perfect but never feel it quite hits the mark?

My solution is to keep moving forward, trying to finish things, even when there are terrible mistakes, and it feels like I should just abandon the whole thing. I try to be consistent with my practicing, even when I feel discouraged and want to abandon it all.

Tenniel’s “Annotated Alice” p. 58, 1-23-18
You’ll have fun if you just start, I tell myself. And afterwards you can have a peanut butter sandwich. And call your mom. And maybe you can take a nap.
(I always promise myself naps. I never take them. Someone I admire recommends twelve-minute naps to increase productivity. Maybe I’ll try one after I write this. I told myself I could. Maybe.)
So, that’s what works for me. Any suggestions from other perfectionists? Anyone know any good rewards that aren’t related to food? I eat too many peanut butter sandwiches.
The point is that now having made a thing, you’re better than you were. For me, the reward is that I created something, even though it sucks, and I can see what I don’t like and change it next time. I learn quickest from people pointing out their drawing “mistakes”. Love this post. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you, Paige! I agree that mistakes are great teachers. Sometimes, however, it can be frustrating when I feel like a drawing is all mistakes. But without the practice, and the failures, I’d never get any better. So, I’m grateful for the mistakes. I just probably will never share the worst ones! 😀